Friday, August 8, 2025

New Letters to Add to My Name

Today, I received word that my dissertation has officially been approved by the grading committee—and with that, a new chapter begins. The journey to this moment has been anything but linear and simple. It’s been marked by deep reflection, relentless editing, spiritual wrestling, and the kind of late-night writing sessions that only purpose and strong coffee can sustain.

This isn’t just an academic milestone for me. It’s a soul milestone. A life-long goal. 

The dissertation itself was more than research—it was a reckoning with SO MANY adventures in education and ministry. Every page was a prayer, every citation a conversation with those who’ve gone before me. And now, with this approval, I carry forward not just new letters behind my name, but a renewed commitment to my work ahead.

To those who supported and cheered me on—thank you. To those who challenged me—thank you. And to those who are still in the thick of your own journey: keep going.  I'm 74. The finish line is real, and it’s worth it.

They said, "A very interesting project and a well-written dissertation. This dissertation meets all the requirements set forth for approval.  Your dissertation is approved.  Congratulations!" 

I am beyond thankful. Praise be to God!   Be blessed!    Wendell C Douglas, PhD, DMin, MEd  👏



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Tuesday, August 5, 2025

Letting Go, Remembering Well


Downsizing Gracefully: Letting Go, Remembering Well

I stood in the doorway of our Get Away Place—the near-sacred space that held hopes for quiet retreats and bursts of activity—and felt the weight of a thousand memories settle like dust on the boxes and bins stacked around me. The realtor's sign was in the front yard. It was time to downsize. Not out of necessity, but invitation. The kind that whispers, “It’s time." 

As we sifted through things—trinkets from a forgotten celebration, handwritten cards whose events we could no longer recall—I noticed a curious grief. I couldn’t remember the celebrations or the moments these objects claimed to represent. But I remembered the people. Their laughter. Their presence

One worn token in particular—a brass tiger—stopped me. I’d saved it from my first classroom desk, and perhaps, only I saw its significance. Maybe no one else even noticed it on the table. But I had held onto it for decades, believing it carried meaning. Now, in this moment of transition, I wondered: was the memory in the object, or had it always been in me?

And that’s the strange miracle of clutter—we gather pieces to preserve what we can’t bear to lose. Yet time has a way of revealing that stories live better in our hearts than in storage bins.

Downsizing isn’t just about space. It’s about releasing ourselves from the need to prove our memories through possessions. The Get Away Place gave me rest. It gave me art. It stored our stuff. And now, letting go of its artifacts feels less like forgetting and more like trusting that nothing sacred is ever truly lost.

So we're choosing to keep the stories. The ones written not in ink or preserved in keepsakes, but carried in the voices and touch of those who shared them. Things can go. The presence remains.  

Be blessed!  wcd


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